This is a long post — longer than what I usually write — because what I’m talking about here isn’t a small annoyance or a passing frustration. It’s something that has been building for years, and I’m finally putting it all into words. I’m upset, I’m exhausted, and I’m passionate about what follows, because it affects every working person in this state who’s trying to stay afloat.
There’s a growing group in New Jersey — people who work full‑time, sometimes more than one job, who earn too much to qualify for assistance but not enough to absorb the constant increases in living costs. These are the people tightening their budgets, lowering their thermostats, cutting back wherever they can, and still watching their bills rise for reasons that have nothing to do with their own usage or behavior.
If you’re part of that group, or you know someone who is, then what follows will probably resonate with you. And if you’re not, then I hope this gives you a clearer picture of what the middle class in New Jersey is being asked to carry — and why so many of us are reaching a breaking point.
This group includes people like me. Struggling, trying to adapt, and live within my means.
What are somethings I do, that deprive comfort? I turn my thermostat down to 66 degrees in the winter. Not because I enjoy being cold, but because I’m trying to keep my bills manageable. I turn my thermostat up in the summer, 74 degrees, to use less electricity. I’ve spent thousands of dollars improving the efficiency of my home, recently, wrapping the structure in Tyvek, trying to seal any drafts, upgraded windows, and even removed an entire window on a northwest-facing wall because it received no sunlight and contributed to what I calculated as 25% of my potential window draft/convection.
That’s not luxury. That’s discipline. That’s sacrifice. That’s doing the right thing. And yet, despite all that effort, my bill keeps rising. Not because of my usage, but because of the fees layered on top of it. I know this, my bills are documented in Spreadsheets. I can see it, my usage is down, I'm generating my own electricity, we have a clothesline. Expense is rising rapidly. I'm angry, to say the least.
To make ends meet and stay ahead of these rising costs, I’ve had to get creative. I’ve joined the gig economy, spending my extra hours behind the wheel for Lyft. It’s in that car, driving across this state, where the reality of NJ’s economic divide becomes most apparent. For example, a person I drove recently wasn’t worried about their utility bill at all. Why would they be? Their cost is capped. The state picks up the rest. This isn’t resentment. It’s recognition of a structural imbalance.
Forced Charity vs. Voluntary Charity
I believe in charity. I believe in helping people who genuinely need help. But charity should be voluntary, not forced through utility bills that offer no transparency, no choice, and no opt‑out.
When the state mandates that one group subsidizes another, without limit and without accountability, that’s not charity. That’s a transfer of responsibility from the government to the middle class.
And it’s happening quietly, through line items most people never question.
The Incentive Problem No One Wants to Talk About
Programs like USF were designed to prevent vulnerable households from losing heat or electricity. That’s a noble goal. But the structure creates a perverse incentive:
If your bill is capped, conservation becomes irrelevant.
That’s why you see:
window AC units left installed all winter
inefficient appliances running constantly
no behavioral incentive to reduce usage
Meanwhile, the middle class is told to conserve, upgrade, weatherize, and “do their part.”
NJ's system rewards waste and punishes responsibility. We keep electing people that push this imbalance further.
The Real Cost: Not Just Dollars, but Trust
When people feel like they’re paying into a system that doesn’t respect their effort or sacrifice, trust erodes. And once trust erodes, civic engagement collapses.
That’s why so few middle‑class residents file comments with the BPU, imo. They assume it won’t matter.
But it does.
Every rate increase, every program expansion, every adjustment to the SBC or USF is influenced by who speaks up... and who stays silent.
Right now, I believe the middle class is largely silent. I think you are being taken advantage of too.
A System Worth Fixing
New Jersey’s energy assistance programs were built with good intentions. But good intentions don’t guarantee good outcomes. When a system becomes unbalanced—when it places too much weight on the people who already carry the most... it needs to be recalibrated.
My Lyft ride didn’t make me angry at the person in the back seat. It made me aware of the quiet, growing burden on the people in the front seat—the ones driving, working, paying, and trying to stay afloat.
The middle class deserves a system that recognizes their effort, respects their contribution, and doesn’t treat them as an endless source of subsidy.
Where This All Leads — And Why It Should Concern Every Middle-Class New Jerseyan
I’m not a political theorist, but I know what I’m seeing. When a system tries to make everyone “equal” by pulling some people down while artificially lifting others up, that’s not fairness. That’s not balance. And it’s certainly not sustainable.
It resembles the kind of economic structure where outcomes are engineered rather than earned — where the state decides who pays, who receives, and how much. And the people footing the bill have no say in the matter. Whether or not someone wants to call that “communist,” the direction is unmistakable: forced redistribution without accountability.
And the consequences are already visible.
New Jersey is experiencing an exodus. The last numbers I saw showed roughly 35,000 more people leaving than entering. People don’t uproot their lives for no reason. They leave because the cost of living is suffocating, the taxes are relentless, and the policies keep shifting more burden onto the people who are already stretched thin.
I’ve seen it in my own family. My niece left the state because the taxes on her home and the everyday cost of living were simply too high. Years ago, I considered leaving too. Ironically, staying may have saved my life — medical issues from blood clots may have made a move disastrous. But the fact that I even had to weigh my health against the financial pressure of living here says everything.
And now, with expansions to low‑income housing subsidies and percentage‑based utility programs, the burden grows heavier. These programs don’t just help people in need — they shield recipients from the consequences of their own consumption, while the rest of us pay more. There’s no incentive to conserve, no awareness of the impact on others, and no limit to how much the state can demand from the middle class to fund it.
It’s frankly disturbing.
Real Solutions — Not More Burden on the Middle Class
If New Jersey insists on maintaining percentage‑based utility caps, then the system needs structural reform. Here are solutions that actually make sense:
1. Reduce the Usage Cap
If someone’s bill is capped at a percentage of income, then the allowed usage should be capped too.
Not unlimited.
Not open‑ended.
Not “use whatever you want and someone else pays.”
A capped bill should come with a capped consumption allowance.
2. Require Energy Efficiency Measures
If taxpayers and ratepayers are subsidizing someone’s utilities, then the property should be required to meet basic efficiency standards:
If the middle class is forced to conserve, the subsidized class should too.
3. Use Subsidized Housing for Solar Generation
If the state wants to reduce energy burden, then subsidized housing should be leveraged as an asset, not a liability.
Cover the rooftops with solar arrays.
Install community solar on unused land.
Turn these properties into net generators, not endless consumers.
Flood them with solar panels — let them produce energy instead of wasting it.
This would reduce the USF burden, lower statewide demand, and create long‑term savings instead of endless subsidies.
If You’re Tired of Paying for a Broken System — Speak Up
You don’t need to “consider” contacting anyone. You can do it today. These are, to my understanding, Public Offices, funded by taxes, and they exist to hear from the public.
New Jersey Board of Public Utilities (BPU)
Main Number: 609‑292‑1599
Board Secretary (Public Comments): 609‑984‑5320
New Jersey Division of Rate Counsel
Consumer Assistance: 973‑648‑2690
Toll‑Free: 1‑800‑624‑0331
Governor’s Office (Public Input Line)
Constituent Services: 609‑292‑6000
New Jersey Legislature Offices
You can call your district office directly.
Legislative Information: 1‑800‑792‑8630
These are not private numbers, to my understanding, they are the official public contact lines for state agencies and elected offices. They exist for exactly this purpose.
If the middle class doesn’t speak up, the system will continue shifting more weight onto the people who already carry the most. I encourage everyone feeling this to speak-up.
New Jersey Board of Public Utilities (BPU)
https://www.nj.gov/bpu/
Division of Rate Counsel
https://www.nj.gov/rpa/
New Jersey Legislature District Map
https://www.njleg.state.nj.us/district-map (njleg.state.nj.us in Bing)
South Jersey Gas Filings (General Page)
https://publicaccess.bpu.state.nj.us/ (publicaccess.bpu.state.nj.us in Bing)
NJ Outmigration Data (General Reference)
https://www.census.gov/data/tables/time-series/demo/geographic-mobility/state-to-state-migration.html