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When Someone Close to you Becomes a Drug Addict

I never put a lot of thought or research towards Drug Addictions, especially not towards Drug Addiction involving harsh or more addictive Drugs. For example, some highly addictive or harsh drugs include Percocet, Crack Cocaine, and Heroin. Recently, I found myself in a Relationship that brought Drug addiction close and personal. It was a daily problem and very alarming. When the addict is someone loved, like a Sibling, Family must share their addiction and resulting hardships. Although most addicts probably conceal their addiction, it is not difficult to identify an addiction when they are close. First, all should know there are a fine line, and a huge difference, between Drug Abuse and Drug Addiction. Second, experience shows those addicted do not know their standing. Therefore, they believe they are Abusing Drugs and could stop anytime. In contrast, they are dependent upon the Drugs. In simple terms, Drug Abuse is simply experimenting with Drugs in a manner they are not intended. Add...

THE DOWNSIDE OF CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE

I was raised in a very strong Catholic family. I don't say that lightly, being raised American. My Grandparents came here while their Children where young. They found comfort in Portuguese communities because they where surrounded by like-minded individuals. God was major part of our life. When calamity came, my Mother would Pray. When misfortune struck our family, it was because we didn't live as the word has taught. When you go astray from your teachings, we find a downside. To a Christian, I don't think Marriage is wholly for love. It's about family. It's when you find a like-minded individual that shares the same values and morals. Surely, it's best to Marry within the same faith because the values need to be the same. I guess it can be summarized as Jesus explained, "your yoke mate". Aside from my siblings, I see people in Church trying to form a belief. It seems to be forming a belief on whether God exists or not. The confusion is absurd to me. A...

GOVERNMENT HEALTH CARE - INDEPENDENT INSURANCE

The nation is going through a major Insurance Crisis. On a Daily basis I read a headline pertaining to the Insurance Plan President Obama is striving to pass. For several years, I've come to know more and more people that where visiting Clinics or having to borrow money from family in order to have needed Medical or Dental work. This plan needs to pass and I think most Americans will feel better having their Taxes put towards the Well-being of their fellow Americans'. There is a lot of negativity coming from the Industries of Medicine and Insurance. Clearly it's bias stemming from their concerns of security. However, they must realize there is a beast coming forward that would crush them regardless. As fewer people are able to find Affordable Insurance or plans to cover their Medical expenses, they will begin to seek alternatives or simply not be as quick to see the Doctor. Those who work in the Insurance industry will surely have a lack of clients to sustain a supportive i...

A MAGIC EXPERIENCE FOR DADDY'S LITTLE GIRL

I truly feel like a little kid, I'm so damn excited! Doing something to make someone else happy is always something that makes me feel good. When it's your Child, it feels even better! I thought Amber's Mother was going to give me a hard time. I awoke yesterday and had a concise message, "You added a day to the trip". I'm a very spontaneous person. Planning is pretty new to me. I'm putting a lot of thought into this trip because Amber. If I landed Monday morning, I wouldn't be able to check-in at the Hotel. Therefore, I booked the flight to land Sunday evening instead. Using shuttles for Transportation, Amber and I would have been stuck with our bags. I spoke to Amber's Grandmother, they where just asking. Irrelevant comments, really made me nervous. I knew inside she couldn't deprive her of this trip. In the Court Order I have half of my vacation time with Amber anyway. I even would give up a weekend, I mentioned. I just want to do this for h...

I DONT KNOW WHETHER IM THE BOXER OR THE BAG

Love this song. So hard to hear the lyrics the way Eddie Vedder holds syllables and carries a note (The Man holds some air in his lungs). It's a masterpiece of music. The lyrics are mysteries and relative to losing someone, IMO. The Performance, sung by Eddie Vedder says it all. The lyrics are speaking two perspectives. One is the life after the death of, as I see it, a Soldier. A Letter bearing News arrives and the Wife or Mother does not want to read the letter. The other is someone saying goodbye to either his Wife or Mother, then his Family. Unsealed, it came in an envelope and someone read it but it's still laying on the Porch? Maybe a Mother speaking to a Father, she wants to leave it again. We just got to wave goodbye. I appreciate this song! It's in a new light now. ------------------------- Unsealed On a porch a letter sat Then you said i wanna leave it again Once I saw her on a beach of weathered sand And on the sand I wanna leave it again... yeah On a weekend I w...